From the Melanated Man:
It starts with the courtship.
You’re taking her out to the movies, buying her flowers and candy, spending big money on expensive jewelry, OR…taking her on a nature walk, going to an art museum, chilling at a hookah bar, OR…rocking it at a (enter favorite artist) concert, talking on the phone through the night, or “sitting on the dock of the bay watching the tide roll away…”
Whatever it takes to win that woman’s heart. Everything that makes up the essence of her. OR so it seems…
I, and many men who’ve come before me, have repeated this pattern of behavior for YEARS starting from our PRE-TEENS! We provide the chase, and the women play coy like they’re completely innocent creatures.
That’s the nature of the business.
The problem for most men, BLACK-MELANATED MEN, is that we don’t stop to think about who or what the hell we are chasing.
How ILL-EQUIPPED we are for love and marriage according to WESTERN PHILOSOPHY AND STANDARDS.
How that MENTALITY was not suited for us in the FIRST PLACE.
This extends to the SISTAHS as well, which picks up where I left off from Part 1.
As I mentioned before, the CONSCIOUSNESS of BLACK WOMEN has been severely comprised by the Western way for quite some time, which has caused BLACK MEN to unknowingly accept a train of thought destructive to HIS EXISTENCE to keep HIS WOMAN.
The CONSCIOUSNESS of BLACK MEN (his NATURAL position as ORIGINAL MAN!) has been in a comatose, DEAD state for it seems like FOREVER, leaving the BLACK WOMAN unprotected, clinging to the CAUCASIAN, EUROPEAN MAN (his way of life) for guidance (smh.)
And through the generations since *our fall, this has become FORGOTTEN information. BLACK MEN, especially young BLACK MEN, do not understand this dynamic when we court (*the IDEA of courting is problematic in itself) and marry OUR WOMEN in this environment.
We don’t understand that *OUR EMOTIONS towards our spouse has minimal importance AT BEST when it comes to a marriage. Emotions change like the wind given the circumstances.It SHOULD NOT affect the fact you and your spouse share the SAME GOALS, which brought the BOTH of you together in the FIRST place. The vision (refer to that example in Part 1) SHOULD NOT change just because your emotions fluctuate from time to time towards your spouse.
We don’t understand that the families of both parties must be in TOTAL agreement before the marriage union OCCURS!! A harmonic relationship between both families creates a environment that is conducive and productive for child-rearing and child-raising, which passes on a STRONG SEED FOR FUTURE GENERATIONS!!
(Arranged marriages viewed from this perspective doesn’t sound as BARBARIC as WESTERN PHILOSOPHY makes it out to be.)
WE DON’T UNDERSTAND THAT *MONEY (OUR TRUE BALL AND CHAIN) DOES NOT MAKE OR BREAK A MARRIAGE!!!
Money is a concoction created by those in control to KEEP CONTROL of the masses.
And how many times have we heard that without money, you might as well forget the thought of marriage?
The thought of it?
“You need to get you DOLLARS up before you jump that broom, bruh!”
“I’m NOT dating, let alone marrying, no BROKE-ASS man!”
Yeah, I know you heard that before, fellas, in so many words or WORSE.
IF BLACK-MELANATED MEN AND WOMEN ARE THE ORIGINAL HUE-MANS ON THE PLANET, WHY IN THE HELL DO WE NEED MONEY TO KEEP PEACE BETWEEN OUR MEN AND WOMEN???
If you don’t know WHERE you come from, who you going to turn to?
We know the answer to that question.
BLACK MEN have lost the trust of BLACK WOMEN.
But the BLACK MAN will rise again soon enough.
BLACK WOMEN, you must break away from your COMPROMISED mindset and begin to support YOUR MEN 100 PERCENT!
We need you in the WORSE WAY!
I know you won’t DARE do this until WE decide to wake up and understand our TRUE SELF, which is NOTHING similar to a CAUCASIAN, EUROPEAN MAN.
You must realize that as BLACK-MELANATED MEN, we are VISIONARIES of the HIGHEST ORDER! We can create a reality where the IDEA OF MONEY no longer exists…
…where OUR MANHOOD and YOUR WOMANHOOD can be expressed appropriately and to its FULL EXTENT…
…where generations upon generations of our people can experience LIFE the way it was meant to be experienced…AGAIN!!!
I know it sounds like a pipe dream, but it’s the TRUTH.
Deep down, WAYYYY deep in your SUBCONSCIOUS MIND, you KNOW IT’S TRUE!
“I LOVE YOU, BLACK WOMAN! I HAVE DECIDED TO TAKE MY RIGHTFUL PLACE ON THIS PLANET AND FULFILL THE DESTINY PLACED UPON ME BY THE ALMIGHTY CREATOR! IT’S TIME FOR YOU TO DO THE SAME! COME BACK TO ME AND BE MY WOMAN ONCE MORE!”
Peace and Love from to my melanated family,
The Melanated Man